Yep! You
can give ‘em ‘tit for tat’ and question their ancestry while you make a case to
have them banned from games.
Nope! That
does not make for a better team nor will it do your beloved sport any good
turns.
DISCLAIMER
Opinions put forward in this series are presented in good faith and without prejudice. The opinions we offer are based on observations and are not intended to hurt or denigrate any individual/s. Any resemblance to any person is purely coincidental.
How to Handle Outbursts from Irate
Parents and Friends of Players in Your Junior Team
Deescalation
is Key
When
faced with irate parents or spectators, prioritize deescalation. Coaches should
remain calm, acknowledge frustration, and set a standard against offensive
language. Parents can also discourage bad behavior by speaking up.
Communicate
Expectations Early
Before
the season starts, outline acceptable behavior during pre-season meetings. Make
it clear that disrespectful conduct won’t be tolerated.
Cheer,
Don’t Sideline Coach Aggressively
Encourage
players positively and avoid conflicting instructions.
Parents Should Let Coaches Handle Coaching
However,
sometimes in the heat of the moment, protective urges and inflated opinions of
an offspring’s abilities can lead to histrionics and the situation can get out
of hand. So the need to stay calm is paramount. (You can jump up and down and
punch a cushion when you get home!)
Recruit Family Members as Assistant Coaches and Helpers
This
tactic most often creates a ‘club’ atmosphere and the kids love it when their
parents are an integral part of the super hero group!
Humanize
Referees
Introduce
referees before games to foster respect and understanding.
Set
Up Patrolling and Warnings
Monitor
spectator behavior and warn offenders immediately. Be prepared to take action
if necessary.
Schedule
Private Meetings
Address
concerns privately with irate parents to avoid escalating situations.
Exit
the Field if Necessary
If
you witness bad behavior, leave the field and inform officials.
Remember, maintaining a positive
atmosphere benefits everyone involved. Let’s create a supportive environment
for junior sports teams!
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